after updating nothing the TV screen config and after a reboot he gets stuck on starting xbmc,
ssh works and have a backup, but how am I going to get work now
 
Sorry but more information is required.
There is an issue with the latest upgrade - something to do with the Raspbian updates.
If you have a backup, I would restore that and not upgrade for a while. Keep an eye on the forum.
I managed to get the upgrade to work but that was by enabling the staging repository. See beta 2 thread.
 
yes it was because of the update, I restore all

I will wait until fix