Interface of XBMC on Laptop

[Nikox9]

Alright, so I tried typing in SSH:
sudo apt-get install xbian-package-vnc-server
sudo start vnc-server

I get the info: vnc-server start/running, process 26564
but....nothing happens


In Config > Packages, I only have the choice between:

admin
base
devel
firmware
kernel
libdevel
libs
net
non-free/utils
repository
system
utils
video
web

One question, is it normal that there is no light on the ACT ? (obviously I can connect the my Rpi and see the Xbian OS running, otherwise I could not see the Config > Packages for example)

Thanks