Interface of XBMC on Laptop

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ok,
vnc work more or less like this :
vnc-server will catch the screen and send it over network. it need to be run on the pi,
with start vnc-server, but you will see anything there. you need to start after a client (TightVNC) on windows that will catch the network stream, so just enter the pi ip adress, and the rest should be good.
you should see the xbmc screen appear.

But it's slow, and it's not possible to see video.

and for the link, you don't want to install vnc-viewer on the pi but vnc-server