How to set up VNC connection?

[spleencheese]

OK. I've commented out the console none line in /etc/init/vnc-server.conf

I'm not sure how to add -d option to OPTIONS variable in file /etc/default/vnc-server. I see the line OPTIONS="". Do I put -d inside the "" so it reads OPTIONS="-d" ?

Sorry if this is a silly question - I told you I'm not very techie

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As for the AUTOMODE being 1 when I looked at it; maybe this was changed when I was fiddling with the settings in the GUI?

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The ios app I'm using is Version 3.3.0.028336 of RealVNC viewer.


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